It' s hard to explain people what they've done in the past. The task becomes even more difficult when the people are ur frnds. All friends are not our best buddies, all our besties are not saints.
Mistakes are a part of our survival. But we often refuse to embrace the life tool called forgiveness. Rancor is our first reaction to mistakes. The stupor of anger blinds us of the relationship we share. For silly shortcomings that can be easily forgiven , the mega large self pride called ego stops us from forgiving.
Pride and self-esteem are definitely necessary. Being totally shameless will make us laughing stocks. But the mega size pride is a syndrome. The three letter word is no less than HIV.
Just like the human immuno virus that snatch our immunity, EGO as its called dries up our good virtues that make us human. The antidote for this syndrome is available, but the infected are too egoistic to avail the cure.
Coming back to our talk on friends and forgiveness.. "To err is man,to forgive is divine" going by this old adage we must try to understand that mistakes can be avoided but cant be eradicated.
" Anger is mortal, but camaraderie is eternal "..
So embrace comradeship with a gentle kiss. :)
-Savio
